I live in a house with two other people...one drinks everyday out of sight for a couple of hours...the other one drinks about 3 times a week at night (limit around 3-4 a night, half the time less than that). There is always alcohol in the house. At any moment I could get plastered if I wanted.
The one who drinks a few times a week used to offer me drinks. This person "knows" (not really, still somewhat in denial) my problem, but wouldn't mind if I drank the alcohol.
The people I'm with truly do love me...I think it hurts too much to know the truth about someone they love...so they pretend nothing is wrong. I don't know you or your father...so I can't say why he buys you alcohol. I'm sorry you're going through this. I would like to move out and live on my own again...I don't have the money yet. Hang in there, Bradster.