CW..... nooooooo don't change it to crazy.. cause you aren't crazy.
Ya know... we joined on here around the same time......and boy... you have come so far!
What I *think* is happening is that your stbxah contacting you so much is bringing back things from the past. I remember when the two of you were together under the same roof.... is it weirding you out that he is calling so much where before he pretty much kept to himself? You probably are feeling claustrophobic by his neediness. You are doing the absolute right thing..... letting the attorneys deal with it. Maybe a restraining order would be good... but if you don't think it's necessary - then don't.
It feels so good to be away from the drama - from the pain - and to then have it all come back like lightening bolts and your cage getting rattled like that..... it's got to be uncomfortable.
You are doing so well! Oh... and *imo*..... I think you should choose a name that is just about you... nothing to do with him. Just a thought
