need some direction today
I just joined today.
My husband started drinking a few months ago. We have been together for 7 years-sober. For a lot of reasons, mainly our 3 kids (better schools) we moved to his hometown 2 yrs ago. Recently his old friends from school are coming over using my house as party central! My H has turned into a different person. At first I blamed them, but now I feel he is out of control.No threats work; they call me names when I don't "join in" it is like a frat party in my backyard. I even threatened to call the police on all of them last weekend to get them to leave at 3 am. any advice or support here would be appreciated.