Dear Marle, Of course you are anxious since she is seeing him again, it is only natural since he is the one she was using with. Unfortunately just like the drugs there is nothing really a mother can do about it. Maybe praying for him is not such a bad idea. You know when I was 18 & dating my ex,k my parents really disliked him ( with good reason ) My grandma was praying oneday & I asked her who was she praying for. She said Joe. I asked her why are you praying for him when everyone dislikes him so much. She said Diane he needs our prayers most of all. I never forgot that.
Maybe her prayers are the reason at 58 he got clean & sober. Even though our marriage was over many yrs ago I was happy to hear he cleaned up his act. I like to think my grandma's prayers are the reason.
Try to relax about it.
Love,
Diane