Originally Posted by
Shivaya 
... I've told him that I will have to bring up his drinking and use of drugs, and he says that it would not be in the best interest of the children if I do this, and do I want to fight or go about it reasonably!!!!!????????
Strange, I thought you were thinking of the best interests of the children by stating this! They should start a programme called ''A's say the silliest things'', this would be a good one.
Shivaya, hugs to you hunny! you have tried so hard to give him space to come to terms with his own problems whilst taking care of you and your children. I am sorry that things have come to this.
Good luck to you throughout the divorce, I have never had to do this, so I have no advice to give, just plently of luvvin' and huggin'
Blessings and love to you and the kiddies
Lily xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx