Hi rozied~~Just been thinking about you today and your dilemna with your son. It's so hard but the bottom line is you'll have to do what the prison allows. You know what I would do with his letters.. Return them unopened. If he can't be nice to his mom~~then he doesn't deserve for you to have to read them. No way would I allow my son to put anything down I have done to help with his recovery...you deserve more than that!! Amen~~~Bonnie XXxxOOooo