Well thats crappy. I was hoping that he would be supportive. I have not even talked to him about this. Maybe thats all I need to do. I have a feeling that he was just trying to make me feel better. I was being bitchy. He figured I needed a drink. I had not told him that I was going to stop drinking so maybe even though, he doesnt like it, he was trying to pacify me. The first night I didn't drink, I had no problems I had no want even. It was the next night when I was really wanting it. When I get out of work today - (I work from home, but a normal office job through another company) I think I will tell him my plan. I know he will be happy. I just thought it would feel better to me if I just did it and didn't tell him. Even last night when he persisted. I never once said that I was quitting. I just kept telling him I just didn't want to.