Action is the key
Originally Posted by
Summer2008 
I have yet to become strong enough to end the relationship with my ABF, but everyday, every drink, every drunk is pushing me further and further away from him.
I am assuming ABF means = abusive or alcoholic boyfriend. What you most likely already know is, it's not going to get any better. 12-step programs (are you in one?) is about action; not thinking. We 'act ourselves into good thinking'; not the opposite way around.
I know you don't feel strong enough and you don't have to be strong enough to take action. Just move the feet. How bad does it have to get?
I pray for your willingness to move forward, without this man. Nobody deserves to be treated less than desirable or with integrity.
Originally Posted by
Summer2008 anytime he makes an excuse for his drinking I call him on it.
....and, how is "calling him on it" working for ya? Take a good, hard long look at the life you'd leading and the years you're wasting. We don't get to do a "do-over" and take back one single day of our lives. Take action, dear one. Take action.
**{hugs}}
Last edited by scorpiogirl; 09-01-2008 at 08:58 AM.