Originally Posted by GiveLove

If you are going through life desperate for a relationship you'll attract people who are also desperate. If you're miserable and need saving, you'll attract saviors and other miserable people who'll want to talk about how much things suck for the rest of your life together. If you're perpetually angry and critical of other people, you'll attract the same.

If you're fine with yourself and walk through the world with grace and strength, you'll attract the same. When I wanted to find someone "normal," I took a long look at myself (with the help of a really good counselor) and made myself into the person I might fall in love with.