LOL JT! I guess it's about choice too sometimes. I cannot force myself to be greatful at the moment,but I will at some point and that is what is great about being me. I'm glad you brought it up about things being as natural as breathing and about creating disfuction as well. Although, my hubby needs to cut back on his beer because he is getting very plump and it does bug me a lot when he can down so much at one time. It's just so unappealing seeing a big old guy sitting or laying on a couch with half himself hanging off, slugging down the beer,belching,farting and scrating him self. Then on the other hand it gives me time to read and play on the computer. Thanks for being honest.