Welcome Ts,
ITP is going through a similar situation. Hopefully you will be a strong as he during a very trying time. You can read his posts in the friends and family forums. As Astro suggested, that would be a great place for you to start!
Here is a copy of his first and second posts so you can catch up! Prayers
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-new-post.html
His second post,
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...y-replied.html