I would not allow an alcoholic to have 50% custody of my child.
My ex wanted that and I fought very hard against it and won.
Not only that, 50/50 is NOT good for a child as the research demonstrates.. They need one secure place to call home.
Your hubby is quacking to bully you into submission to the current situation.
It will def. take courage, patience, strength, finances, and determination to change this.
It CAN be done. You will come out on the other side.
Set your intent and move in that direction. Don't be influenced by his negativity if you want out.