Thank you so much for sharing your story, I know the feeling of not wanting to tell anyone how you dated such a person. And actually yesterday it really hit me. I am a control freak and also co-dependent but what also hit me was by me still being angry, mad not letting all this go is about my control. I was controlling the only thing I had left (anger) I could not change or control him or what happend but I could control my thoughts and anger..... wow....today I feel so much better letting the control go. I am still sad over it all but I know that him or anyone else for that matter will never hurt me agian.
