My husband lost his job a year ago and he was also 2/3 of our income so I know how that feels. My daughter currently has 85 days clean from a nasty heroin habit. She decided to get help for herself, but of course her insurance did not cover it all. Oh well, we still have a roof over our heads and for that I am grateful. It is so hard not to enable the positive steps they take, but mine knows that this is it for us. The money is gone so she better make the best of this opportunity. Hugs, and don't be a stranger. Marle