Well ((((rozied)))))
I hope the letter helps you feel better cause most likely it will not make him change anything. Look at your motives. As an avid "letter writer" to my A's for years and years I have found that mostly they just make things worse if I send them. I came across a trunk full of letters I wrote to all the different A's in my life the other day I could have written them yesterday as the feelings have not changed all that much over the years.
If letter writing did much good there would be at least 5 less addicts in this world right now cause my "poison pen" as my family calls my writings has used several gallons of ink.
It gets back to keep the focus on you...