Thanks for the replies
I am definitely hanging in there, don't get me wrong. And my group doesn't meet until Monday night (Al-Anon). We did go to his rehab today and I think it grounded him again. Everyone was asking him questions like, so what have you been doing, what meetings are you attending, etc. and he was stammering a bit. Saying how he just needed to catch up on sleep before getting back in the swing of things. I hope so. But I know that I can only control my behavior. But I wouldn't be me if I didn't get ticked once in a while. Its just a knee-jerk reaction to the years of lies. I gotta work on that.
On a good note, we had a really good time there. I am really looking forward to my meeting tomorrow night and am glad I went to church. I have also now finished 2 of my books (Codepency No More and Addict in the Family). I am now starting the Big Book in preparation for tomorrow nights meeting.
And you are right. This is a roller coaster.