I know I asked myself the same thing. When I read here that people relapsed after years of being clean I really was scared thinking about my ad and almost felt what is the point. But then you read post like Done with it and it makes sense. No guarantees in anything, I only hope my ad keeps doing as good as she is and that I can only deal with one day at a time.
I do notice since she started this other place with meetings she is like so happy to go there and talks about it when she comes home like she just is all energized from the people. It is a shame that sometimes one cannot find a good group they are comfortable with because I see the difference in her attitude compared to the other two meetings she goes too.