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I'm so sorry I missed your post about all this before.
I'm really glad you had such a good time and he was
so good to you... I know how you feel about him..
I know hysterocotomy's are a bitch, my Mom had one,
there was talk just recently about me maybe having
to get one and I was scared out of my mind. They
are not fun... I'm glad you are on the mend.
I can relate to having to let go of someone else's beliefs
about what they do. If I had the choice I would choose
for my parents not to drink anymore, but that is not going
to happen. So I have learned to live with it.
Since I have accepted it, our relationship is better and I am
actually happier also. It's not about what I want, they are
there own people with their own minds, like you said, so I
have let it go. I used to get really angry about it.
A lot of people think like your son do, I'm not saying it is
right or wrong, I'm just saying he's not in the minority anymore.
He could change his mind next month and want something
totally different who knows..
Big hugs and love and light to you.. :ghug2