Yikes Am I a codie?
well my husband is in a program doing great . he actually likes it! and he is sober and he is not manipulating me .. he is doing positive , great ... problem is is that he harldy calls LOL ... I am the one now feeling like oh gosh am I not needed ? a lot of emotions tonight , like no one cares ,, what about me etc .. is this what is meant about being co -dependant ? Also too I know he has A LOT of activities ( this is not the traditional type of rehab ) . they are active , busy and daily outings ... so where does he even fit into my hectic life and my work at home job ? so just feel a lot of confusion tonight where we fit together .....What is normal i suppose ? I have had that with him at one time and truly we were so happy together . there was space , but there was some togetherness not a neediness . and its so weird to see and feel that again .... so just wanted to get some support and feddback from all of you .... ty Judy :ghug