Originally Posted by
anubus 
One problem I am having a difficulty with is Detaching. I've given him to God and visualized it as the book suggests......but yet I'm a nervous wreck over it. HOW does one comepletely let go, and NOT feel anxious or worry about it??????????
I released him to God, but yet am still worried, and begging God to please make him bottom out & realize his problems.
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Step 3: This takes time, its progress not perfection. All we need to do at Step 3 is
make a decision. We don't need to perfectly and finally, as in once and for all time, turn the care and life of our alcoholic over to the will of God. We need to just
decide that we are going to to so. This becomes a daily or even hourly practice.
Just decide today to turn the situation over to God. That includes the outcome. No need to tell God how to do it, either.
Sending hugs your way~~