Many thanks to you all for your support and kind words. I know now that he isn't marriage material. I kept thinking in the future of how it may be and it wasn't looking pretty. So I think I am giving up on that idea. My heart still goes out to him because I know it's not easy and its a very hard and long road.
I agree with you Impurrfect. I think he is avoiding life and the feeling of being "numb" is much better. I wish he would really see what life could be like down the road once he's recovered.
Many thanks again I will be back, going to go cry now. :- (