Any words of advice to help me with this?
XABF and I were long distance so meeting in person in a public place was not an option. I sent an email in which I told him that I could no longer be involved with him until such a time as he had been working a recovery programme for at least a year. I apologized for the mode of communication and I said I would treasure what we had had but that it was no longer working for me as things stood. I did not elaborate.
And then.....I stuck to my no contact boundary.
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