Hunny he is only doing what addicts do.......if you marry him you only get more of the same until HE changes the choices that he is making. I am so sorry that you are in pain. Just pull up a chair and stick around here you will learn alot here. Click on the stickies at the top of this forum as there is a ton of helpful info in there and also you can click on any of our names to learn our histories and read our stories so you can see how progress works.....stand strong hun.
I was married to an alcoholic for 22 years and he eventually left the kids and I for a female alcoholic/meth addict so believe me when I say that we do feel your pain and understand you. We have a few sayings around here and here are a few of those:
You didnt cause it
You cant control it
You cant cure it.
Nuthin changes if nuthin changes.
Take what you want from this site and leave the rest.
Take care sweetie.
Janitw