Great things have already been said. The relationship sounds insane to me. Name calling, belitteling childish alcoholic behavior. My active alcoholic now ex kicked me out during a drunk. I had been sober over a year at the time. He did the same thing, belitteling me, telling me I was difficult and couldnt get along with anybody, bla, bla,, bla. It was the best thing he did for me. I whined about it along time but I am over it now. Like I said it sounds insane. I hear that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. How many drama episodes are you willing to go through? A dry drunk is as bad as an active drunk. Please get yourself in a healthy place. This is a great place to be open and let it out. I have read some great advice on this posting. I hope you continue to post.