Beegee...... When I went to the inpatient rehab to visit my abf... I felt like the guru guy was telling me or I should say preparing me for the worst. But your friend??? That would be hard to deal with. I would tell her... that you realize that there is a chance for relapse... but right now... at this time... you are enjoying the joy... taking it one day at a time and sometimes one hour or minute at a time! I'm sure you will be given discharge instructions should a relapse come up... and leave it at that. Your ad and her as are two different people.
Are you going to be going to alanon/naranon meetings?
(((Hugs)))