Thank you for sharing your list NYC_Chick.
I have been thinking about my list:
1. I want a healthy playmate/partner - someone fun and adventerous, affectionate, with values, good-looking and tall (superficial but I would rather be honest and get feedback), good sense of humor, smart, honest with integrity, emotionally available, a friend (is it bad that this is first on my list?)
1. I want to love myself and vlaue myself all the time like NYC said (nicely put)
3. I want to be emotionally/spiritually centered
4. I want to be satisfied at work (not look for validation there either, but feel like my work is fulfilling and meaningful)
5. I want to take care of my body - yoga/exercize/eating right
6. Live a sensual life - enjoy yummy food (which I do) and beautiful places
7. Have deeply fulfilling relationships and fun relationships - a full and well-rounded interpersonal life
8. I want to travel and grow and be moved - see beautiful old churches, explore new cultures and new food (yes I am a foodie)
9. Play - indulge the fun adventerous side of my personality - learn to ski, go to amusement parks, bowl (I suck), ride horses etc
10. Learn - take an architectural tour, learn something outside of work that I enjoy
11. Learn to be in my core, strong and stable