Well last night about 1:30 my door bell began ringing. I laid in bed, trying to ignore it. He walked around my house and found the back door open. I must have forgotten to lock it after I watered my flowers. I told him to leave, he said he had no place else to go, he came into my bedroom and I saw him stumble a bit. Eventually he went to bed. I thought man, I am a failure. But this morning he got up to go to work and when I went outside to get my newspaper, there was a bottle of crown royal whiskey sitting by the front porch. Just another little reminder he left for me. I told him I was done. He is not staying here. So we'll see how tonight goes. I will have to remember to lock my doors! I know I'm doing the right thing. He said he would start going to AA again, I said that's fine. come back when he's been clean for awhile. Maybe this will motivate him,maybe it won't. I just have to do what is right for me.