Krhea, You are helping people by telling your story. My daughter will probably be coming home next month from the halfway house and if she does not live with our rules then she will be out. I may need your strength and guidance as I have never done this before. So you hang in there. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you but I do believe you are doing the right thing. He will never grow up if you don't give him the chance. Hugs, Marle