Originally Posted by
obsessed 
It seems everything she does or gets into, I am the one who has to pay
I too have a 19 year old AD. From my limited exposure to addicts and the stories on this message board, it seems to me that so many addicts share a common trait, that of living life as a perpetual child. They take no responsibility and expect others to take care of their business for them.
You don't have to do anything. It's your choice to do so or not.