You're still in my thoughts and prayers! I drove my daughter, she paid. Didn't stop her for 2.5 years. She says now the anger w/ herself and the guilt she felt afterward kept her miserable. True? I have no idea, just telling you what another young girl went through. She tried to blame me once for "making" her do it, I could firmly tell her it was her choice, her money, her consequence! She never said it again, but held onto her misery.
Lauren must make this choice, with or without you, grandmother, etc. In my state they are low cost, free, and some government assistance for those w/o $$. You might check and see. Just a thought.
love ya,
susan