As part of ending Co-dependence, we have to set boundaries, correct? I have a question about that. We, my AW and I, share finances. The problem comes up when spending occurs. She spends on impulse, without letting me share in the decision. The obvious solution to that is to split finances. The problem with that is my commute. If I split finances with her, she'll make me pay for my gas plus half the house payment. Thats equivalent to 1 1/4 house payments. I'd basically be better off leaving.
Any ideas or viewpoints?