I'm not in charge of covering up for somebody else, especially if that person is an adult.
It's up to you whether you decide to have your company over or take them out. On one hand you would be taking steps to allow yourself to have a nice evening out and on the other hand it could be that his behavior is chasing you out of -your- home.
What I find helps me is to examine my motives in order to figure out how I'm working things out in my own recovery.
Last edited by cmc; 07-03-2008 at 01:07 PM.