thanks...the problem is that im the one that is so unhappy!! he seems to be fine most of the time!!..laughing and kidding around with the girls.....(he kids around more than he acts like a father figure)..my daughter has made many commetns to him that he acts immaturely....
Im the one who mopes around or gets frustrated..he just hangs out--on the couch that is!!
also, he never wants to do anything...sometimes he will make a suggestion to go out to eat, but most of the time its take-out..we do not have any socail life..we dont go out with friends, and we dont go out alone unless i make the suggestion and keep asking him.
We have a very boring life and that is also making me unhappy and i think it is unhealhy for the kids that we never have anything to do....
Once in a while there will be a family get together, but other than that, nothing..the phone barely rings....its very sad.