Hi Diane, I think we all live in fear for so many hours of the day. I'm sorry your son ended up in the ER. Your right about the help!! And when they do do counciling I'm not so sure they get enough of it. If they don't have insurance of some kind they are turned away. It's so heartbreaking. My hearts with you sweety. Sounds like your hubby is alot like mine. Guess we really need them. Take care of yourself and I'll be thinking about you. Smiles, Bonnie