hi worried lady i am relatively new to this site and all that addicts entail (my addict is my husband) but in my opinion if he wants to go to a meeting then going to the first one with him is not a bad thing, him going with you is better than him not going at all. Others that are more experienced with this may have a different opinion i dont know but to me i know we arent supposed to enable them to continue using but enabling recovery cant be bad right! best of luck xx