It must be a huge relief to finally see progress and the light at the end of the tunnel! I'm in the process of leaving my AH, but he keeps stalling and doing everything he can to avoid signing the separation agreement. I am trying hard not to give in to all of his demands - you would think he was the victim here! (HA!) I hope he gets motivated like yours did (regardless of the source of that motivation - I just don't want to be here anymore - I want OUT!).