Oh, Barb, I am so sorry.
I can't imagine how hard this must be for you, but I'm proud of you for not drinking.
I didn't see your post about her on the whiner's thread until this morning and sent you a pm asking about her....sorry for the bad timing.
How is Lois doing? I'm sure she's a little confused, too, but glad she has you to love her.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy