Had to speak with STBXAH due to child issue. He brings up his friend and starts in on the ole, "We're just friends...no big deal" . I let him go on getting deeper into the lie because as I said I have evidence of the affair. So at the appropriate moment I drop the bomb. The silence was deafening and then he says:
"Having sex with someone one time is not a sexual relationship." :rof
The game playing blows my mind and today made me laugh out loud.
Thanks for your support. You guys are the BEST!