Yes, you have started...coming here, loving and respecting him enough to not try to guilt him into staying, seeking out meetings...It's ALL good and will really help you. Sorry the meeting wasn't there, but please don't worry about going next week. I know more people who cry at their first meeting (or 6) but the tears are so healing. And when they see those who have been in the rooms for awhile and see love and smiles and even laughter, it is so comforting.
Hugs