brentsgirl

Thank you so much for your responses. Right now, everything he has said, although it makes sense, still hurts. I still have some of his things here and am planning on dropping them, along with a note, to his mom's house (thats where he is staying since he moved out). I get the feeling he is pushing me away for both of our sakes. Almost as if he is trying to make less of our relationship to avoid hurting me more and himself. I do know he's still going to meetings and I am planning on going to one tomorrow night, my first al-anon meeting. There aren't many nar-anon meetings locally. This is all very new to me. I do not use drugs and although I knew he had a problem, I thought I could deal with it and believe him when he said he was gonna stay clean. I have never dealt with an addict before. I am hoping that with time, he comes around and we can talk, hopefully work things out, but right here and now, it doesn't look like it. He's just so closed off from me.