(((Unigirl)))
A lot of RA's struggle around the times of sober anniversaries (3 months, 6 months, etc.). The good part is, as long as we keep doing what we're supposed to, the emotional struggle gets better. I had read about this from several people, so try to prepare myself when an anniversary come up.
As far as keeping quiet with your friend....I used to do the same thing. I finally reminded myself that I wouldn't listen to anyone about my addiction, and had to learn things the hard way. I have to bite my tongue, sometimes, but I'm trying really hard to let others learn their lessons without me intefering.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy