Al-anon if no nar-anon available??
There are no nar-anon meetings in my area, but there is al-anon. Can you substitute?? Has anyone done so, and has it been beneficial? Did the steps correlate with family and codependent issues? Is there the whole 'atleast he doesn't use drugs' vibe?? (don't pretend it doesn't exist....)
I live somewhere where people drive around with alcohol stickers on their cars - my fathers wife has one, I'm a tad apprehensive of looking for help and support off people who may see me as worse than them.
Is there like an unwritten law at AA & Co., where there is a standard of individual respect and treatment of others??