Again, CP
A most valuable post on an important topic. I wish they were consolidated.
The tragedy of all this is how people truly in love follow scripts that lead to so much sorrow. And the only way to effectively restore what is really there is to understand it and discuss it. Healing can happen, it simply takes a starting point and two willing, honest people. I truly believe that it can lead to a better life emotionally and sexually than we ever had.
My hope would be that there might be some people who have addressed these issues and healed the rifts successfully. My partner and I are just beginning. We both think we can do it. We both want it. We simply need to comprehend it.
warren