Have you done a 4th step ? How about your 8th and 9th ?
I also have a 16 year old girl (single Dad) and although she is needy and self-centered like any other teenage girl, we have a wonderful relationship. Granted, I have about a year and a half, and our financial woes are finally starting to lessen.
Just keep doing what you've been doing. Keep your side of the street clean. Show her by your actions that you're trying to make amends for the past. She'll come around.
P.S. mine just called and is mad because she has to wait an hour for me to pick her up.
