She will come home to sleep and eat as long as you let her. It is safe, peaceful and then she goes "out" to do her thing. IMO that behavior is helping keep her sick. I did it for a long time thinking I was helping until a counselor, clean 26 years, told me all i was helping was to help kill her and he asked me "can you live w/ that". I changed my thinking as I won't help her destroy herself. She is still MIA of her own choosing, but I know I have nothing to do with it.
I hope the ring hasn't been hocked and she returns it. Lauren remains in my prayers.
susan
:praying