Originally Posted by
triciafawn 
by the way, I know I've only known this man for 4 months, but for the past 2 months, we've been together almost 24/7. that's alot of hours together.
Speaking from my experience, feeling too much too fast for anyone is always a red flag. Its infatuation with an idea not love based in reality from where I sit looking back.
It might be a good idea to take this time to slow down, breathe and take an long honest look at yourself, what was happening between the 2 of you and what you really want in your life. Put all concerns for him aside since he is where he needs to be and will contact you when/if he is ready. Focus on yourself and your happiness.