Originally Posted by
FormerDoormat 
I'd much rather focus on the things in life that bring me joy than the things in life that rob me of my joy.
What do you think?
I think that's a great idea.....I know that, in my case, I felt so lost and lonely and scared because of my A's actions, and it was because I'd lost my connection to mySELF. My own dreams, preferences, goals in life, unique talents, and pride in the things I had accomplished, all went under the steamroller of "oh no, what's HE doing? what if he leaves? what if he's drinking?"
I love getting to know everybody here. So many good people.