Ditto!
When I had consumed enough pain that I did not even know who I was anymore and was loosing things in my life-I knew it was time for me to STOP!
They do say that is when we have had enough pain-no matter who we are we then decide to get what we need to make our lives better.
I wish you well what ever you decide-Only you can decide to stay with this person and continue feeling the repercussions of the drinking-or "run" it is your choice-
Today as my A is still drinking as well-I'm glad that I "ran"
Good Luck!