I understand he has to stay clean for himself. At first it was me always asking him to please check himself in somewhere... About 3 months into rehab he called me to tell me hes doing this for himself, and that the person he used to be disgusts him. Ive never heard him say he was doing it for himself. Its always been, im doing this for u... or im doing this for my family... It was awesome to hear him say he was doing it for himself this time.. thanks for ur reply!!! ill keep ya updated