glad you are here, welcome!!! you have your whole life ahead of you. if you are going to let him move in when he gets out set boundries before he comes & stick with them. my son is my addict. he served his 1st prison tem at 21.today he is 38 next month.he has been in & out of rehab & prison since that time. it takes alot of work for an addict to stay clean.they have real intentions of staying clean when they come come but my son has not made it. it is up to the addict. you can not make him stay clean & he can not do it for you.he has got to want to do it for himself. drop the guilt. he did all of this to himself. keep coming back & learn to take care of you.find a naranon meeting & start going. i am a firm believe in meeting. prayers for u & him.